CULTURE SHOCK | Gulf Coast Mardi Gras (part 2)

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I'm back with the second installment of the recap of our crazy Mardi Gras weekend! If you need to catch up, the intro is HERE, and part 1 is HERE.

Anyway.. on with the show.

SUNDAY

We woke up on Sunday to a beautifully sunny but chilly Biloxi morning at my aunt's house (which is insanely beautiful, hopefully she lets me share some pictures of it sometime).

We needed to all be back at the hotel by 11:30 or something, so we proceeded to all get ready and pack up our designated outfit changes (purple shirts for Sunday!). We just knew we were going to some kind of "royal reception" and a "bead parade" afterward. These Gulf Coast Carnival people really need to consider renaming these events to do them justice, because we had NO IDEA what we were in for.

As it turns out, the Royal Reception is where the royal court is formally presented, walks down their own red carpet, and stands on stage for the longest receiving line I've ever seen (and hopefully ever see) in my life.

You can see that this massive ballroom is pretty much completely packed with very nicely dressed people crowding the rope line and waiting to snap pictures and cheer on their favorite Dukes and Maids. The spotlights and regal entry music really added to it. Once everyone had managed to precariously make it up the stairs to the stage, and the new queen had been toasted, the entire crowd started forming a line and to go up on stage and congratulate each of them. Thank goodness my aunt had warned us to jump in the line early, because I think the entire royal court was still shaking hands an hour and a half later.

We knew once the Royal Reception was petering out, we were supposed to go upstairs to my aunt's hotel room and change clothes before helping with this bead parade, but all of a sudden Jennifer was frantically waving at us from the stage and telling us to get out of there NOW.

Well thank goodness she got our attention, because if we would have waiting 10 more minutes I think we would have been trampled by the frenzied mass of 1000 people that suddenly transformed from genteel royalty supporters to bead hungry party animals.

As soon as we stepped out of my aunt's hotel room it was like BOOM! wall of people. The hotel floor that the royalty and their families were occupying had been a construction zone for the last 3 days to accommodate literally thousands of people walking up and down it, dancing, drinking, and generally having a really good time.

Now, when I say construction zone, I don't just mean they had removed the beds and added some chairs. Some rooms had light shows, some had stages with dancers performing, some had DJs, one had a gatsby-esque champagne tower, all of them were decorated with beads, sequins, chandeliers, and thematic decor.

Background: Each year, the association or Krewe picks a theme for that year's Mardi Gras. This year, the Gulf Coast Carnival Association's theme was Extra! Extra! and each pair of royalty represented a different headline-making event. One was Team USA winning the Miracle on Ice game, another was King Tut's tomb being discovered. Jennifer's was the sinking of the titanic (wah wah), but if anybody can make a tragic event look good it's her! ;)

I can't do justice to the chaos that ensued for the next few hours. The idea is that people parade around to each of the rooms and collect the custom beads that each member of the royalty has had made for them that year, but it was more like a mixture of black Friday at Target and Animal House. There was a jazz band walking up and down the hallway, the booze was flowing, and people were shoulder to shoulder the whole time. My aunt said she went through 1800 beads. Anyway, pure crazy.

This part of the day was so fun, but I also was on serious sensory overload at this point. My siblings and I opted to head back to my aunt's house to watch the Super Bowl - but guess what?! My parents and Avonna and Jennifer still had another party to go to!

The King's Dinner is held on Sunday night, and because it took place during the Superbowl, it was themed that way. But this is Mardi Gras, folks, so you don't just roll in a TV and put some wings on the table.

If you're going to have a Mardi Gras Superbowl Party, you better have balloon arches, astroturf table runners, TONS of food, 6 projectors, and a bunch of former players there signing footballs and custom placemats. Duh.

We all slept reeeeeallly well on Sunday night, because we knew the biggest party was still to come on Monday! Part 3 is coming your way tomorrow!

CULTURE SHOCK | Gulf Coast Mardi Gras (part 1)

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I just had one of the most surreal but most fun weekends ever. As I said in this post, my entire family went down to Biloxi, Mississippi last weekend to participate in the Gulf Coast Carnival Association Mardi Gras weekend festivities because my cousin Jennifer was a maid in their Mardi Gras court this year.

In approximately 72 hours I went to 8 parties or events, wore 4 dresses and 2 themed tshirts, collected a BAZILLION beads (no flashing involved. ew.) and drank approximately that many glasses of champagne. We really didn't know what was in store for the weekend, but each successive event was even more over-the-top than the last, and Mardi Gras certainly didn't disappoint.

To give you a full run-down of the festivities, I'm going to break this up into 2 posts. But I think they're still going to be long ones, so settle in, grab your own glass of champagne, and get ready to let the good times roll!

SATURDAY

We flew into Biloxi late on Friday night, so Saturday was the first day of festivities. And just so you know, we is:

  • Myself and Andy
  • Sister Rachel and husband Andrew (confusing, right?)
  • Sister Haley
  • Mom and Dad

Anyway, we got up Saturday and got ready to attend the Queen's Luncheon.

Background: The Gulf Coast Carnival Association is an exclusive Mardi Gras Krewe, and every year they pick their King and Queen. The King is an established middle-aged man, and the Queen is a young 20-something year-old woman. (I don't know why this is, chalk it up to tradition.) The King and Queen have a royal court made up of Dukes and Maids. The King and Queen each pick 4 of their own members of the court, and the association picks the other 4.

Now, when I think luncheon I have quaint visions of a small party of women having a nice light lunch Downton Abbey style. That is not what this is.

We walked in to a ballroom elegantly set for the Queen, her maids, and 600 of their closest friends and family. A band was playing on stage, multiple open bars were stocked with lots of wine and champagne, and a hand-painted crown was wrapped as a gift at each place setting. Guests included the First Lady of Mississippi, wives of Senators, city councilwomen, and pretty much anybody who is anybody in Gulf Coast society. Oh, and we were there too - slightly under-dressed (it was a theme for the weekend).

While the ladies were enjoying a 5-course lunch, the boys donned their assigned Saturday Jennifer-customized shirts and hit the pier for a crawfish boil hosted by the Queen's father (I think). Halfway through my 2nd course of lunch, I got a text that the Andrews had already "destroyed" their first platter of crawfish. After the luncheon, we joined them so my sisters could have their first crawfish experience.

Look at how nicely Andy is helping Rachel... he's a fast learner, that one.

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After the crawfish boil, we went back in to the hotel and sat and chatted for awhile since it was the first time we had all been together. Then the best thing that could have possibly happened happened. We made plans to all go to dinner at Mary Mahoney's, which happens to be my favorite restaurant ever.

Mary Mahoney's Old French Housecharm,Presidents,

My very favorite thing (next to the gumbo, which has ruined me for all other gumbo) is the Sisters of the Sea Au Gratin. Side-by-side creamy, cheesy, comforting au gratin dishes - one with crab, the other with shrimp. I can't spend too much time writing about it, it makes me hungry and sad that I can't have it more often.

They do ship their gumbo and a few other things on the menu if you're dying to try it now. (Hey Aunt Avonna - my birthday is in March! :) )

But guess what - our Saturday wasn't over yet! Mardi Gras isn't just about the parties, it's also about the (daily) after parties. We pretty much rolled ourselves back to the hotel ballroom which had once again been transformed - this time with more bars, buffets of food, a large dance floor, and an exuberant band called Bag of Donuts playing in full costume with a massive light show. I was a little disappointed that I didn't actually get a bag of donuts, but that could have just been the exhaustion. Stay tuned for part 2!

In the Mood for Mardi Gras

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So I have this cousin Jennifer. Jennifer's life is totally different and MUCH more glamorous than mine. This weekend, she is a maid for the Gulf Coast Carnival Association's Mardi Gras Ball. If this doesn't mean anything to you, you should really give yourself a little primer on all the history, traditions, and totally over-the-top nature of Mardi Gras HERE. And here is the link to Jennifer's official Mardi Gras bio and some pics (hi Jen! Don't hate me for this! :) ) Suffice it to say, this is very BIG deal to folks in New Orleans and the Mississippi Gulf Coast, and it is a very big deal to my cousin Jennifer. So much so that my whole family gets to head down south and enjoy all the festivities this weekend!

Jennifer was queen for a different Krewe's Mardi Gras ball a few years ago, but this weekend is supposed to be even bigger and better. For reference, the picture up there is of Jennifer and her court from that last ball. Woah. right?!

Anyway, I will obviously take tons of pictures when I'm down there, and update you on all things Mardi Gras when I get back on Tuesday. Also - stand by for pics of Andy looking bewildered in a bow tie and tux.

See y'all later!

Valentine's Day Place Settings for Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner

Cozy, Casual Breakfast

I can't think of a better way to start a romantic, sweet Valentine's Day than sharing a laid back and intimate breakfast with your sweetheart (or roommate, or kiddo). Taking the time to make and enjoy a breakfast together, even if it's nothing particularly fancy really seems like a ritual that should happen all year round. Get the look: Table Runner | Gold Silverware | Pillar Candles | White Coffee Mugs

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What to Cook:

You know who makes a darn good quiche? Martha Stewart, that's who. I especially love this one made with goat cheese and a hashbrown crust.

Galentine's Day Lunch

Few things are better than lunch with the girls. Plus, it's pretty much the best excuse to make the most of your girly teacups, make giant bows out of napkins, and layer on the glam. Get the look: Pink Plates | Gold Silverware | Bow Napkin Tutorial| Teacups

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What to Cook:

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This Cherry Cheesecake Dip from i heart eating is super easy, and great for sitting around grazing while chatting with your girls.

Romantic Dinner

Every year before Valentine's Day, I'm always tempted to leave the comfort of my home for bustling restaurants and special menus made for an evening unforgettable romance. Nevertheless, my favorite and most meaningful Valentine's Day moments have come from sharing a special dinner made by the two of you at home. A homemade meal doesn't mean you can't make the ambiance special, as proven by this lush red table.

Get the look: Napkin Rings | Gold Silverware | Candle Sticks are thrift store vintage | Red Glassware

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What to Cook:

Beef Wellington is a special occasion classic, but this individual version saves a bunch of time and labor while looking as impressive as its full-size counterpart.

Happy Valentine's Day!

The Results: I Let My Boyfriend Pick my Outfits for a Week

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Well folks - the results are in! The whole backstory is here, but the short version is that last week I let Andy pick my outfits in an attempt to find out more about what he likes for me to wear, and to get some new outfit ideas. Let's break it down day-by-day.

Disclaimer: I am not one of those instagram selfie takers that takes an hour in the morning to get the perfect shot of my made-up self at an exact angle. These pics aren't always so pretty, but let's just focus on the outfits then, shall we?

Monday's Outfit

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On Sunday night Andy walked in to the closet, and looked at all the tops and bottoms hung on one side, and after about 20 seconds, turned around to face the dresses (I'm guessing that seemed complicated.) He picked this one pretty quickly. When he looked at the jewelry he told me he couldn't decide between "a pop of color" and "some bling" and then asked why I don't have one that's both. :|

Andy Says:

Since Carrie is always cold I wanted to go with something little heavier with the sweater dress and I decided to dress it up a little bit with the long feathery necklace with a little bling to it.  I was really tired and didn’t pay much attention to the shoes I picked out but luckily it worked out! Ha ha

Carrie Says:

This dress is comfy and warm, so I was good with Andy's initial choice. I got a little nervous when he started pulling some very big, very summery statement necklaces, but his final choice is one I like - even if I wouldn't usually wear it with this. One of my weird things is that I never wear flats with dresses or skirts, because it just makes me feel boxier. But hey - the world didn't end.

Tuesday's Outfit:

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Andy walked into the closet and went RIGHT for this shirt, which is easily the craziest shirt I own, by a lot.

Andy Says:

Well, Carrie always just wears black with one color, and I wanted her to wear more colors. I like this spunky shirt. She has a pretty colorful personality for those of you reading that know her and I've always been surprised that she doesn't reflect that in her attire choices.  A lot of stuff in her house is eye catching and vibrant but her closet didn't take advantage of the vibrant colors she's become accustomed to using.

Carrie Says:

Andy says nice things, but all I could think is WHY on earth does he think I should wear yellow and black stripes, and burgundy. What you don't see in this picture is the fact that he first picked a giant yellow statement necklace to go with this get-up, and that he asked me"Why don't you have yellow shoes?" yikes. but at least he settled on something I only felt mildly ridiculous in for the day. Also, do men think all sweaters are the same? This is a summer weight, three quarter sleeve sweater. My office space heater was workin' hard on Tuesday.

Wednesday's Outfit:

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This picture is extra terrible, but this outfit is probably the closest thing to my standard repertoire of all the outfits Andy picked.

Andy Says:

After seeing Carrie go into a mini mental breakdown over the second outfit I chose I decided to go with something that I felt would be normal for her to wear and wouldn't make her completely regret the decision to ask me to do this. I resisted the urge to go outrageous with my choices, although that probably would have been a lot of fun for me and for Carrie's coworkers *cough derek and amy cough*.....maybe next time ;)

Carrie Says:

I like this shirt, which is why it's weird that it's been sitting in my closet for almost a year with the tags still on it. When I did my closet purge, I tried it on and decided to keep it for another couple of months to see if I'd wear it. The red is just so attention-getting that I think I usually feel self-conscious wearing it. So kudos to Andy on busting me just a little out of my shell on this one. Although again... FREEZING ALL DAY LONG.

Thursday's Outfit:

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This is the outfit that had me the most worried as he was picking it out, but I actually was very pleasantly surprised once it was on.

Andy Says:

The shirt is another one that I'd never seen Carrie wear so that's mainly why I picked it. I've always liked blue on Carrie and I thought the skirt went with the shirt so I went with it. I wish people could have seen her face when I pulled that out of her closet, it was absolutely priceless hahahaha. It wasn't supposed to be terribly cold the next day but I figured she'd freeze if I didn't pick out a sweater and to my limited knowledge black goes with everything.  She loves this elephant necklace so I decided to bust it out for this outfit.

Carrie Says:

Well this one definitely surprised me. At this point, I wasn't surprised that Andy opted for more color or pattern than I normally would, but I was a little worried when he picked them both at once. I wear this skirt a lot in the summer, but I don't think I'd worn it yet this winter, and it works better with tights than I thought. Good work, Andy.

Friday's Outfit:

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I had a business-casual work event on Friday, but Andy had done well enough that I told him to give it a shot, and I'd change it up a little if I had to.

Andy Says:

I can't honestly say why I chose this outfit. With her work event I knew she'd want to be comfortable but not dressed down very much and I thought this outfit worked within that framework. She kept it the way it was so it couldn't have been THAT bad right?

Carrie Says:

This outfit felt more like Andy was guessing what I would have worn anyway, and not picking an outfit that HE would have chosen, but it was sweet of him to be so considerate. I like this sweater a lot, and I'm right in my wheelhouse of solid colored neutrals.

Overall, this was a really fun experiment, and one I wouldn't hesitate to try again. I think Andy made me realize how few risks I take with clothes, which is extra silly since I take so many risks in home decor - and that's a way more permanent decision! Everyone was telling me how brave I was for letting Andy give it a shot, but really I think he was brave for venturing into my closet and dealing with some of my insecurities.